tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post9112133571227744010..comments2024-02-16T00:46:53.071-08:00Comments on The Sober Girl, Wife and Mum: Day 95 - Sober love, apply liberally, with a shovel.Daisy Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-29726327213051454102015-01-11T02:22:07.026-08:002015-01-11T02:22:07.026-08:00What a great line Kate, thank you I can't go b...What a great line Kate, thank you I can't go back there, I don't know if I'd get out of the otherside.<br /><br />Hugs to you too, you so inspire me too :) xDaisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-49165241620962924362015-01-11T02:21:26.379-08:002015-01-11T02:21:26.379-08:00Bea, I loved that and added it to my post, undone ...Bea, I loved that and added it to my post, undone in a second. No pedalling stopping here. I don't feel brilliant but thank you for the sober hugs and the supersize of them all.Daisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-52021465718038289902015-01-11T02:20:30.014-08:002015-01-11T02:20:30.014-08:00They do get longer, bleaker and darker don't t...They do get longer, bleaker and darker don't they. I didn't much get hangovers physically but the mental crippling paranoia was dreadful and not worth the two hours drinking, that's for sure. But every day i started again. Thank you for guiding me too. xDaisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-66575234053499891812015-01-11T02:19:37.316-08:002015-01-11T02:19:37.316-08:00You're very kind and thank you xYou're very kind and thank you xDaisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-4271794521854813822015-01-11T02:19:27.399-08:002015-01-11T02:19:27.399-08:00I love your tag line, so much to gain from this is...I love your tag line, so much to gain from this is so true. Different is better! :)<br /><br />Thank youDaisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-63486749514161045892015-01-11T02:18:44.336-08:002015-01-11T02:18:44.336-08:00Hey Prim, thank you. NO ROOM FOR THAT NASTY SHIT.
...Hey Prim, thank you. NO ROOM FOR THAT NASTY SHIT.<br /><br />I've got that podcast and relistened to it this weekend lots and signed up for 180......:) xxx<br /><br />PS I LOVE YORKIES :) and I feel like a pudding.Daisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-12312409219076054852015-01-11T02:17:34.910-08:002015-01-11T02:17:34.910-08:00Its a scary number 7 years of actively trying, so ...Its a scary number 7 years of actively trying, so many years before then also 'trying harder' but failing. Smacking him over the head is a great idea!Daisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-10572254015505628182015-01-11T02:16:50.806-08:002015-01-11T02:16:50.806-08:00Thank you Lisa, I'm just the same terrified an...Thank you Lisa, I'm just the same terrified and thank you for sharing that wobbles around this time are normal. xDaisy Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06655799879447853508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-70057325615562055702015-01-10T01:12:57.910-08:002015-01-10T01:12:57.910-08:00Brilliantly described, as always. Songs still comi...Brilliantly described, as always. Songs still coming to mind, constantly this week, as I quoted on LS, REM "When the day is long/ Hold on ... when you think you've had enough of this life/ Hold on .../ Everybody hurts..."<br />Never forget those seven years, seven years when you knew the way, but something held you back - it will not defeat you again special lady, NO WAYMorganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14832954687136192645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-60808681073211834162015-01-07T23:34:01.472-08:002015-01-07T23:34:01.472-08:00Daisy, your instinct is right; sober momentum is t...Daisy, your instinct is right; sober momentum is terrifically strong but can be undone with just one drink, like throwing your brick of shame into the spokes of a moving bicycle. So don't stop pedalling, ever. Here's lots of super-size sober hugs from me. You are brilliant! Bea xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-60539861482875704642015-01-07T21:13:59.523-08:002015-01-07T21:13:59.523-08:00It took me about 5 years. 5 years that slowly got ...It took me about 5 years. 5 years that slowly got darker, longer and so bleak.<br /><br />I wake up every morning thankful to not be hungover. To be able to face the day with joy and anticipation.<br /><br />You are on the right path.Ainsobrietyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15642935819165465190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-856947216474230762015-01-07T20:46:29.329-08:002015-01-07T20:46:29.329-08:00Fabulous post Daisy! Thank you :).
hugs, SRFabulous post Daisy! Thank you :).<br /><br />hugs, SRSobrietyRisinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16490190890347246018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-87977828371033479852015-01-07T12:47:24.305-08:002015-01-07T12:47:24.305-08:00Well done for riding the storm Daisy. I'm tryi...Well done for riding the storm Daisy. I'm trying to adjust to the idea that if I manage to succeed on this journey my life will never be the same again but that's ok. I will do different things. You seem to have done the same, and that's ok. That's good. Different, but better in so many ways. I hope you can continue to find joy in your new life, and thank you for continuing to inspire me. I'm now on day 11:)<br />Sarah<br />somuchtogainfromthis Sarah62https://www.blogger.com/profile/11693866869225304120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-78785123644336998772015-01-07T12:09:44.867-08:002015-01-07T12:09:44.867-08:00good for you. cramming so much good stuff in that ...good for you. cramming so much good stuff in that there is NO ROOM for the shitty nasty crap that used to take up so much space in our heads. that's the ticket. keep doing that, yes?!<br /><br />and you've possibly already seen it but if not have a look at Belle's podcast no. 31, on dealing with sober goals (which she terrifically kindly did for me when I was around day 100. she rocks.)<br /><br />pouring on the sober love like gravy into a Yorkshire pudding.... not that you are from Yorkshire....or, indeed, a pudding ;) <br /><br />here - have another dollop. no such thing as too much! you are doing SO BLOODY WELL. Keep doing what you're doing! Prim xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-41290560146620825602015-01-07T11:22:13.002-08:002015-01-07T11:22:13.002-08:00Seven Years...that's a great way to put it int...Seven Years...that's a great way to put it into perspective. I never want to drink again because I don't want to stop drinking again...never want another Day 1. Do whatever it takes: sinking in sober love! That's something I've noticed about the sobersphere: it's full of love, understanding and acceptance. Keep your shovel handy, to apply love liberally, or to smack the wolf over his head if he comes calling again ;) Lori K xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8816666332655403098.post-85278033009273434422015-01-07T08:31:40.371-08:002015-01-07T08:31:40.371-08:00You are amazing and worth it. I had a few mileston...You are amazing and worth it. I had a few milestone wobbles at 100 days too. Its a known fact!<br />Like you now i am terrified that if i stop i wont be able to go back and that is a good motivator for me<br />loads of nz hugs<br />lisa<br />www.thecword-compassion.com Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com